feat: apt-based deployment via Gitea Debian registry

Deklarix now ships as a .deb package instead of a raw binary, matching
the enconf-webpanel infrastructure standard: scripts/build.sh assembles
a real .deb (systemd unit, env template, postinst/prerm), scripts/release.sh
uploads it to Gitea's built-in Debian package registry after a green
test run. Target servers add one apt source and get updates via
`apt upgrade` from then on.

postinst only starts the service once DATABASE_URL is actually set in
/etc/deklarix/deklarix.env — the shipped template ships it commented out
on purpose, since an uncommented but unfilled placeholder URL is
syntactically indistinguishable from a real one and caused exactly that
crash-loop during verification.

Verified end-to-end against the real test server and Gitea registry:
upload -> apt-get update -> apt-cache policy -> apt-get install -> a
service that stays down until configured, then runs migrations and
serves /health once a real database is set.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

packaging/DEBIAN/prerm

@@ -0,0 +1,11 @@
+#!/bin/bash
+# Deklarix — prerm
+set -e
+
+case "$1" in
+    remove|deconfigure)
+        systemctl stop deklarix.service 2>/dev/null || true
+        ;;
+esac
+
+exit 0